Where do you get the energy, Dr Swamidass? 
Briefly, Randal Rauser is a Baptist seminary professor in Edmonton, Alberta. He grew up in a strict Pentecostal family, but enjoys talking with skeptics. His favorite method is to “steel man” someone (build up their case and argue from their point of view) rather than “straw man” them. At minimum, he tries to devote 50% of his time to arguing from the other one’s side.
https://randalrauser.com/2018/06/overcome-your-cognitive-bias-with-the-50-50-rule/
In this book, he argues that we need to be the sort of adversary someone wants to agree with, not just that makes his case as an adversary.
He interacts with a friend/atheist, who co-wrote part of the book. He examines prejudices from Christian standpoint regarding unbelief and doubt, and compassionately discusses God’s view on that.
I think you would enjoy discussing with him as a TCK who tries to build bridges.
Thanks.