Exactly right. The distinctive of our community is that we are to love our enemies like family. We are only able to do this because we have our view of the world reordered.
I am not a pacifist, but I am deeply influenced by Stanley Haurwas, one the greatest living theologians. Please watch this brief video by him, talking about opposing evil:
@Patrick, could you look at this too. I think you will find him interesting. What do you think?