I appreciate this discussion and the way that you all are engaging. As a moderator, thank you all for that.
As a skeptic, I would suggest that there is no expectation that you would or should throw yours out, if that can even be done (I doubt from personal experience that it can.) Thomas was the doubter among the disciples. He was told that Jesus had risen from the dead and replied:
“Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe.”
A week later, Thomas encountered the risen Christ in the upper room. Jesus challenged him to see the nail holes and to touch his side. “My Lord and my God,” he proclaimed. Jesus then said something that has always stuck with me, and I find it appropriate and significant for this conversation:
Then Jesus told him, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” (John 20, NIV)
There is plenty of room for skeptics, but those who are not burdened with such thoughts (like my wife, for instance) are not burdened with what if considerations. As such, she and others like her have a greater connection to God through relationship. This, I believe, is the blessing to which Jesus referred above. They are freer to simply enjoy the relationship while we skeptics continue to rationalize and rehash his existence again and again.
So, @Roy, I am sympathetic to your challenge regarding the Catch-22. There is truth to what you say. I don’t believe, specifically, in how Dale has phrased it (that the evidence is only given to his children), but rather the way that I see it is that some hear his voice more readily than others. Beyond that, and I think you would all agree to this, some are more open to listening for it, too.
I don’t want to push too hard in that direction, because I’ve read your words (Roy) in the past about your own personal experiences. I don’t want to minimize your experiences at all, so I’ll pause on this for now.