Alternatively, you have the ability to view all manner of ordinary events as somehow aimed specifically at you by a God who seems to think that you are more important than other people.
What you mean, apparently, is that anything that can’t be distinguished by empirical evidence from a natural event, even if it’s a miracle, doesn’t violate natural law. I don’t think that’s a proper understanding of what violation means. Any effect without a cause within the universe violates natural law, and so do apparently uncaused quantum events that are actually effected by God.