They is no objective way to define reasonable. It’s generally consent and agreement along those actually familiar and knowledgeable about the topic.
Take for example this quote about Peter Duesberg from his Wikipedia article.
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…although the Berkeley virologist raises provocative questions, few researchers find his basic contention that HIV is not the cause of AIDS persuasive. Mainstream AIDS researchers argue that Duesberg’s arguments are constructed by a selective reading of the scientific literature, dismissing evidence that contradicts his theses, requiring impossibly definitive proof, and dismissing outright studies marked by inconsequential weaknesses. – Jon Cohen.[11]
This sums up why Duesberg’s opinions about HIV and AIDS are not considered reasonable. Of course Duesberg absolutely believes his ideas aren’t just ‘reasonable’ but also correct. I don’t expect you, colewed, to believe you are being ‘unreasonable’. I don’t believe it is even possible to convince people that they are being unreasonable. Like anti-vaxxers, AIDS skeptics, anti-evolutionists and flat earthers, and any other host of similar ‘skeptics’ this is just what happens in human brains.
Given that people who may appear perfectly normal in some areas can nonetheless have crazy-shit bonkers ‘reasonable’ ideas that nobody can dissuade them from, I have to assume that I likely have blind spots as well. Everyone probably does. However, the best self-evaluation for that is to bounce the ideas off others. In scientific matters I consult other scientists in the fields for their opinions. And I can only report that from the feedback received, I don’t seem to carry any ideas where I strongly believed I was right and the experts are wrong. So if I’m infected with a meme that’s overriding my rationality like some imp of the perverse, it’s probably in a different area, like music appreciation or engaging people in debates about evolution long after the ‘reasonable doubt’ train left the station.
So in summary and in conclusion: Colewed, you may never believe that your deductions in this area are unreasonable. But I see that it is, as do so many others that have bothered to engage you in this area. Most full-time scientists with deep knowledge won’t even bother engaging – it’s not worth their time. None of that matters. None of that will ever penetrate the perception of certainly in one’s belief in their own rationality. What Jon Cohen described is something very few people would admit of themselves even after a lifetime of reflection. It’s just an odd kink of being human. Sometimes that is tragic, such as how Duesberg’s irrational confidence contributed to the premature death of perhaps 300,000 Africans, but often it’s benign.
Not that change isn’t possible. It took an embarrassingly long time to grok that debating creationism on Internet forums is about as productive and satisfying as pissing into a strong headwind and so I had to work on why that felt compelling. Turned out it was about figuring out why people think the crazy things they do.