How do Christian apologists make converted believers feel better about themselves? Christianity is all about how a person is unworthy, how they are inherently sinful. How they must stop sinning and atone for things that they may not consider sinful at all like pre-marital sex and homosexuality. My primary complaint about Christian apologists are that they shame people into thinking that somehow their thoughts and actions are somehow immoral and against God’s law and how they need to be saved and forgiven from their supposed sins against God.